Why anyone would want their son to be involved is beyond me. Especially when there are legit jobs that pay more crime free. If you want your son to still hang out with you know the guys you work with that's completely fine. He doesn't have to be involved in the bullshit to do that. Let him be a legit businessman.

The guys I know who are connected still let me hang out at there social clubs even though Im not a mobster. We go out to dinner, talk about normal topics about life in general. They dont look down on me cause Im legit. They actually respect me more to be completely honest.