Originally Posted by NYMafia
Originally Posted by British
Serious question folks..

Seen footage at times of made guys greeting each other and there is a kiss on the cheek.

Does the guy who holds the higher rank kiss the guy, or is it the guy with the lower rank who kisses out of respect?

I know it may not happen so much now due to times changing, but I always wondered about that.

I know it may seem a silly question



It it not a "mafia" thing per se, nor did the Italian underworld develop it. Men "Kissing" one another on the cheek when initially greeting one another or saying goodbye is a very European thing, and an age-old Italian custom that was naturally carried over to many American-born Italians regardless of their vocation, or station, in life. The French and Greeks are also known for this, and several other cultures as well I'd imagine.



Thanks, being British it's just not something we do.
But I did wonder if it was a hierarchy type thing


British is best....