Philip Rastelli had a woman murdered after she repeatedly refused bribes to stop her husband from identifying Rastelli.
Michael Mancuso murdered his wife.
Paul Castellano had his daughter's husband (a civilian) murdered.
John Gotti had his neighbor brutally murdered.
Anthony Casso had several civilians murdered.
Salvatore Avellino ordered the murder of two trash haulers (both civilians) and Anthony Baratta carried it out with the express permission of Vic Amuso and Anthony Casso.
Roy De Meo murdered a kid.
Alphonse Persico ordered Carmine Sessa to murder his girlfriend.
Fritzy Giovanelli murdered a cop.
Joel Cacace murdered a cop.
Sammy Gravano murdered a kid.
Vincent Basciano ordered the murder of a prosecutor.
Several civilians, including one child, were murdered during the 1990 Colombo mob war.
Nicky Scarfo instigated a fight with and murdered a civilian (backed up by two other people because he was too much of a pussy to fight one on one like most of these guys).
Sonny Franzese raped a woman.
Christopher Furnari raped a woman.

That's off the the top of my head - and that's just murders and rapes of women, children and civilians committed by bosses, underbosses and capos.

Also, Gambino crime family and Genovese crime family both peddled child pornography and exploited and induced underage male and female prostitutes.

Real men of honor indeed.