bent out of shape? all i said was that it was a 7th grade term to use, thats all, you told me to toughen up, and thats when i responded..not a homosexual, no one really close to me either.. I called you out for using the forum as a dr phil session, me included..to your face, I would say anything I would say here, no problem at all..you went through a lot, god bless...so hasn't most others, btw..been gambling since I was able to play with my dick, 4 decades, been up and down, a zillion times..saw many die ,my friend, and have kids of my own..been arrested too many times to count...and not one of those things are relevant to the original post..its all good