There is another guy "Not to be" and recently, I had no choice but to "be that guy"
The business I run is hospitality, entertainment, and travel and people pay for different levels of access. I was hopelessly short of help one night. So I get a call saying there was no one to take the door of one of the areas which required VIP access.
So I grumble and swear a little, throw on a track suit and new balance walking shoes (of all fucking things) and drive to Rosemont and sit my ass outside this door checking VIP passes.
A client and friend of mine, who is one of the coolest most stand up right women I have ever known, looks at me and bursts out laughing.
She says "You look like you just came from central casting to be in a really bad mob movie"..she was right..and it was freaking funny.
When you run the business, you gotta do what you gotta do


Been there and done it
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