the one thing that really bothered me about bobby was the hit his dad did to the guy who messed up vito spatafore's brother. Bobby's all messed up about his sick dad having to do the hit but his dad has to do it because he's the only guy that can get close to the kid.
Why doesn't bobby just go with? His dad is sick and bobby is his son, it's reasonable that bobby would go with him to see his godson. I thought it was ridiculous that the show made it an either or plot and made a big issue out of something that seemed really simple to resolve. Bobby goes with his dad and everyone is happy.
Junior told Tony to get someone else to do the hit, Tony didn't listen. Bobby didn't find out that his dad actually did the hit until after he died on the way back. Junior, as well.