I hate to promote my website but it is free -- and I found some info on Ramona - not sure if it is true, but I believe it is. The hard part is proving this - I have a retired NYPD detective I am going to call -- anyone who can provide input please do. But my site IS free, so I think it'd be easier to include links to the Ramona stories rather than paste them here. In a nutshell, I believe the boyfriend is Joseph Sclafani of the Gambinos, who was arrested last summer on S.I. for drug charges in what was a major bust. I also believe her dad is indeed a Gambino capo, Johnny Rizzo.

Links:

http://cosa-nostra-news.blogspot.com/2012/02/allabouttrh-exclusive-mob-wives-ramona.html

http://cosa-nostra-news.blogspot.com/2012/02/allabouttrh-part-ii-more-on-ramona.html

In the links, I also include a link to the Sclafani bust...