Prayer Request (2010)

We've had some prayer requests lately so I thought I'd start a thread just for this purpose for members and members families.

My Cousin Eddie (37yrs.) was recently diagnosed with stage 4 lung cancer on January 8th. He had surgery to remove his left lung and while he was under they removed a tumor the size of a gulf ball off of his heart. He is in the hospital now. He is under going chemo and radiation and he has been doing dialysis. My heart really goes out to him and his family. It was a couple months after his 4 year old son died of cancer that he was dianosed with cancer.

I hope he has an easy time of it.

OMG, that's awful, even more heart wrenching after just losing a child to cancer. So sorry.



TIS

That cancer is a nasty bastard. A prayer for Eddie's strength in the fight; physically and mentally.

Thanks guys

Sorry, Mig, I missed this....of course I will keep him in my prayers.

Same here, Mig. Most definitely.

Signor V.

That is so awful to hear, Mig. I hope things improve. My heart goes out to your cousin and his family, particularly after losing a 4 year old child. As a parent of a 4 year old, I shutter at the thought of dealing with a little dealing with a life-threatening illness.

Nice idea for an ongoing thread Mig.

This one is for me. My mental state of composure. A few months ago on a different topic I posted that my daughter was pregnant with twins.....and then it was one. Well, its twins. The story is long and complicated and my typing fingers will get tired, but in a nutshell, the doctors miscalculated. Baby B didn't "vanish", but staged a comeback and caught up to Baby A. We found this out in January. Now jump ahead to February 26. In a snow storm at 3am, my daughter's water broke...sorta. So they went to the hospital where she has been since then; still pregnant with twins. The doctors prescribe total bedrest in the hospital. She is 30 weeks pregnant, the babies are each a little over 3 lbs. and both heartbeats are strong. Baby B has less amniotic fluid, but they are both doing great and so is mamma. Occasional leakage and other little flinches and glitches. They want here to hang on to the babies as long as possible and at 34 weeks (if she makes it) they will do a cesaerean.

Pray for me that I can last that long with psycho-wife. It's a stressful situation for all concerned. The waiting is a killer. Every little blip, jump, kick, contraction, etc. causes a rise in the anxiety level. Stay tuned.... and say a little prayer or "have a good thought" as they used to say on NYPD Blue.

My dear MC, I'm thrilled to learn that the twins are doing so well. I understand the need to get to Week 34 (the lungs), and I hope that your daughter and the babes hang in there. As for PsychoWife, I understand that, too. She and I just might be cut from the same cloth.

Seriously, Of course I offer you the prayers that I have AND the good thoughts, too. This must be a very stressful time for your family (how's the papa-to-be doing?), so I will pray that God gives you all patience, strength, and courage and for the health of mama and babes.

MC, Twins how exciting for you and your family. I will keep the babies and your Daaughter in my thoughts and prayers. Keep us posted how things are going ok.

MC,

I wish your daughter and the babies and you and your wife well. I will pray for the best, but have a strong feeling all will turn out beautifully.

If it means anything, I was only 3 lbs 4 oz. when I was born, and survived beautifully and that was centuries ago. Nowadays, with all modern knowledge, babies survive much much smaller than that. Please keep us posted.

TIS

And you haven't gained too much weight since.

Good luck to your family, MC. I'm sure you can't wait to see those grandbabies.

Or to paraphrase what they used to say on "Hill Street Blues", to the twins, "Be careful in there."

I hope the news remains positive and that you'll soon be bouncing two babies on your knees.

Pleased to hear this MC.

You will always get a good thought from me

Nice thread, Mig. I'm praying for your family. And for MC's new addition(s) to the family, too. Also for our friend Fame, hopefully we'll get an update soon on his condition.

I have a prayer request of my own I'd like to make. This isn't easy to share, but I recently told the board about a friend of mine, a young lady, who's been a long-time family friend, and her battle with cancer. The prognosis isn't good, in fact, it's really bad. The doctors have decided that the chemotherapy treatments are not helping but very much hurting her overall condition, and they've decided to stop them as there's simply nothing more they can do for her. Her mother has chosen to take the ventilator out and let her die naturally.

I guess I just ask that you'll pray she passes as pain free as possible and for her 4 yr old son, whose care will now pass to the girl's mother and stepfather. She just turned 28 and this will obviously have devastating effects for her brother, mother, stepfather, and her many friends and family. I'd be lying if I said the whole affair hasn't caused me to reevaluate the way I live my own life. I just can't fathom that someone so young and beautiful can get cut down in the prime of their life...If I'm lucky I may live for 100 years, but in my mind she'll forever be that young girl with the big brown eyes and bright smile. I don't really know what else to say right now, but that it helps talking about it with you all.

Her name is Amanda.

Thanks and God Bless

It seems horribly unfair that someone so young should be lost to the world. As a mother, daughter and friend, it would seem that Amanda has so much still to give. Unfortunately, we can't always understand the inequities that life forces on us.

I hope and pray that Amanda passes as quickly and painlessly as possible. For you to love her as much as you do, she must be a very special person.

I will be keeping Amanda and her family in my prayers. When the sad times comes be there for her family. They will need all the support they can get. You are a good friend to her Ice.

This one is for me again. The Col has to get a scope put down his throat tomorrow. The Doc wants to see if he has any ulcers in his esophagas. We are afraid that if he does have ulcers that they turned to cancer. Also that my 2 kids that live in VA will have safe travels tomorrow. They want to come up and be with their Dad. Thanks a bunch.

Thoughts and prayers to Mig, Colonel and family. Good luck and best wishes. God bless you all.

Praise the Lord. The Col had his test done today. The Doc said there was no ulcers but his esophagas is inflamed. So he put him on another med to take along with the nexium. I am so happy. And my kids made it up here fine.

Good news Mig, I'll back date some prayers and keep them going. Now the inflamation isn't coming from agita caused by one Filet Mignon....is it?

I'm a grandpa! Twins arrived this morning via C-section - one boy (4 lbs.) and one girl (3 lbs-5 oz.). All three are doing well. The babies will be in the Neonatal Intensive Care Unit for 4 weeks. They are such cute and fragile little people. Keep up the prayers for their health and development. Thanks in advance.

DOUBLE CONGRATULATIONS, MC!!!

That's good news and I'm happy for all involved.

MC,

Wonderful news!!!!! Congratulations to all!! Really, not a bad weight at all for twins no??? Enjoy my friend. Being a grandparent is a totally different ballgame. You can spoil, spoil, spoil!!! You'll love it.

TIS

I am so happy for you and your family MC. No doubt the twins will bring much joy and happiness. Please post pic's when you get a chance. Concratulations!!!

MC, I am so very happy and thrilled that everyone has come through this! God bless and watch over the babes and Mom, and may He continue to do so.

And of course I'm sending a very, very special congratulatory hug to Grandpa.

Congrats, MC!! I wish the twins well and a speedy trip home!

Congrats to Grandpa MC and mommy and the babies. The best days are when babies come.

My family has had the worst luck as of late. The Col's Dad is in the hospital in ICU with some kind of bacterial infection in his blood stream.

My Dad is in the hospital in ICU in Fl. with a serious case of Pneumonia.

Please keep them in your thoughts and prayers. Thanks.

Shall do Mig. It can weigh heavy on you heart when it comes in bunches and lasts for days and weeks. Brighter days are ahead.

Sorry to hear that, Mig! Hang in there; you family's in my thoughts and prayers.

The Col's Dad got home last night but he is having complications due to a procedure he had done in the er.

My Dad is out of ICU now. His pneumonia is getting better so thanks for the prayers XOXO

I will keep you and your families in my prayers. Stay strong and God Bless.

Michael Tassone,
Pittsburgh, PA

Tuesday, April 6, my grandkids will be 2 weeks old. Our little boy is faring quite well; off the respirator and getting stronger every day. Little princess is having a tougher time. Her respiratory system was not as developed and on day 2 she was moved to a Philadelphia hospital for a higher level of care. But she is doing well and all tests are positive. She just needs a little more time to develop her lung power, which has been happening. Little Mom and Dad are torn between two hospitals an hour apart. The angels have been sent to watch over them. Many people are praying and the collective strength and power of prayer are watching over them. Thanks for your continued prayers and "good thoughts".

Thanks for the update MC. Sometimes these things simply take time and it seems everything is going in the right direction. I'm sure before too long your little Princess will be fine once she has her lung power. I'll continue to pray for your whole family. Hang in there and please keep us posted. God bless you all!!


TIS

So glad to hear that they continue to grow and improve, each and every day. May God bless them and continue to watch over them - and Mom and Dad, too. I'm sure this has been tough on all of you. Can't wait until you're chasing them around!

Eddie passed away today. Please keep his parents and his Sister in your thoughts and prayers. My heart is breaking for his Mom(my Cousin)she lost her Son on Mother's Day.

That is very unfortunate, Mig. 37 is such a young age to die. I am very sorry for your loss.

Well, I was hoping I would never have to join in this thread to ask for prayers, but unfortunately, here I am.

I just found out about a month ago that my grandfather has been diagnosed with prostate cancer, and at this stage, it is terminal. Now from what I understand, when caught early, prostate cancer is usually very treatable, and there's a pretty high survival rate as well.

Unfortunately for my grandfather, they caught it far too late. It has already spread to his bones, and he has tumors in his shoulders, neck, back, and ribs. Due to his high blood pressure, high cholesterol, and diabetes, chemotherapy is out of the question, too.

He made a visit to the Cancer Treatment Centers of America, but they turned him away because they do not accept his insurance. I really have nothing else to say on that.

This week they are going to the University Medical Center in Baltimore to speak to a prostate cancer specialist to see if there is anything that can be done to help.

The doctor he had been seeing has told him he has 3 to 5 months left to live. I am trying to remain optimistic, but given everything that I know, I can't help but expect the worst.

I am not an overly religious person, but I do believe that there is something out there. So to all those who do believe in a higher power, I humbly ask for your prayers in my grandfather's time of need. I would appreciate it. Thanks.

{{{ Mig }}} so sorry to hear that!

XDCX, I'll say a special prayer to the Big Guy for him and your family.

XD, I am so sorry to hear that. It's a terrible thing, to watch a loved one suffer. I hope that whatever time your grandfather has left is as filled with love and as pain-free as possible. Please know that you and your family are in my thoughts and prayers.

X, I am so sorry for you. Your grandfather will be in my prayers.



TIS

XDCX,

My heart goes out to you and your family. I will keep your Grandather in my prayers. Will you be able to go to Baltimore and visit with him? God Bless.

My condolences Mig!

XDC, Hugs! Hang in there!

So sorry to hear about this. You'll be at my stomping grounds. This is where I work.

My hopes and prayers are with you Mig.

Back in March, I posted a prayer request for my friend Amanda, who was in the terminal stages of a 9 month battle with Lymphoma Cancer, and I want to take the time to thank Mig and Sicilian Babe for the words they offered me in my time of grief...Mig, Sb, your prayers and kind words were truly a source of comfort to me in my hours of need, and I want you to know that I received news of Amanda's passing just a few hours after your messages that morning, shortly after my parents arrived to say goodbye to her one last time in her Dallas hospital room.

Originally a Boston girl, she grew up in Texas and is buried on a little hillside overlooking the road her family takes into town every day...I loved Amanda very, very much, she had an amazing energy about her and always lit up any room she was in. I pray that some part of her wonderful spirit and energy that she shared with me will forever live in my heart, and that I may always remember her (and us) for who we were, and not what time has made of us...if that makes sense.

And of course, I want to thank you ALL for listening, and for everything you all do around here to help make this board a great place for us to come together to laugh, cry, discuss, and spend part of our lives with one another each day. I just ask that you'll pray for Amanda's soul, and for those of us who now have to somehow live out the rest of our days without her.

But I seek solace in the words of those that have gone before us, like the last words of a soldier on the battlefield:

"Do not mourn me dead, for think I am gone, and wait for me, for we shall meet again."

God Bless you, sweetie. Love you always.

Amanda Michelle Valadez 1982-2010

Ice,

I'm so sorry to hear of your friends passing. What a beautiful girl Amanda was. She surely sounds like she brightened up the lives of those around her. My sympathy to you and her family. You will all be in my prayers.

Take care.

TIS

Thank you, dear Tis. You older kids are like surrogate parents to many of us here and I'm truly grateful for you all.

Oh my God, Ice. 28 years old? I'm so sorry. She was a very beautiful girl. I'm sure she was even more beautiful on the inside.

Thanks, Pb. What really compounded the situation was that her grandmother, who had been in a Boston hospital room for months, passed away about 11 hours after Amanda in the early hours of St. Patricks Day, no doubt from a broken heart. Somewhat ironic for the two Irish girls.

Needless to say, the ballad "Danny Boy" will ALWAYS have very special meaning for me.

I wish I could offer some comfort, Ice. There is little to give when you lose someone that close to you, someone who was obviously so special. You just have to be grateful that you knew her and that she graced your life in the short time she was here.

Thanks, Babe. You're the best. As I said earlier in this thread, it really does help in the healing process to be able come here and talk about it with you all.

I'm sorry I didn't update you guys earlier, but I honestly just couldn't even bring myself to talk about it. I know there's an infinite amount of pain and suffering in the world and that my broken heart is one of many, but when you lose someone so close to you it's truly as if a piece of you is gone forever...

Right now we're just trying to be there for her young son whose care has passed to Amanda's younger brother and his wife. So that's priority #1 in my life right now, and I pray that I can be there for him as the years go by. He's really going to need all the love and support he can get.

Ice,
Let time be your friend. That's all I can suggest. Look into her son's eyes and I'm sure you will find Amanda there. Won't that be lovely??

Babe, you are so right about that. When I look in his eyes, I see the same light and energy that radiated from Amanda's. It's so awesome and awe inspiring that I really can't put it into words. The last time I saw him I just couldn't help but hug and kiss him the whole time as if it were Amanda herself. I talked about how he's going to need us, but really, WE are the ones who need HIM.

What's ironic is that she wasn't married when she had little Conner Patrick, and her mother, being the Irish Catholic she is, was not at all too pleased with her daughter's decision to say the least. I never said anything to her of course, but she knew my own feelings about the matter and that most of the girls I associated with were not the types to do what she had done.

And now? Well...I can only say that we THANK GOD that we have a piece of Amanda remaining with us today, no matter what state he was born in. I learned a very valuable lesson about projecting my self biases onto others, and I think it's something we can all learn from.

Sometimes fate takes a hand, doesn't it?

I was seven months pregnant with my youngest when my father died. Seven weeks before his death, we also lost my uncle. And in between, my then four year old had half of her left kidney removed. Oh, and I lost my job!

However, when my daughter was born, she saved us all. Her birth was the miracle that we all needed to lift us from the depths of despair, to use a cliche. She was and always has been my hero, as I'm sure that Conner will always be to all of you.

So sorry to hear about this, Ice!

Ice - I'm sorry I didn't get to see your original request. I'll send a prayer out for her and her little one.

I said my prayers as asked. Hope they are answered.

Thoughts and prayers as always...God bless.

Ice, I'm so sorry to hear about your sad news, but as you've noted, what a wonderful blessing to have her son carry out her memory through his life - that all of you who loved Amanda can be there for him, and he will always provide you with her spirit.

I know this must be very difficult for you and her family and friends, losing someone so young and important to you, but you can look to each other for support because you all remember what a beautiful person she was, and you can share in special memories of her. Always remember that we're here to talk to if you need us.

Thanks again everyone...after writing all of that and sharing so much with you all I was hit with a wave of emotions that I hadn't felt since the initial aftermath of her passing. I guess I still haven't fully accepted the fact she's gone, and still find myself emoting at times over such a great loss.

Maybe it's just the man in me, but I think we can all agree it's sadder to lose a woman - especially a young woman at that age. There's an old Indian legend that says when the Sun and the Moon were born their mother subsequently died; and thus, the Sun then gave her body to the Earth, and from her all life was to grow. And from her heart the Sun took the Stars and placed them in the night sky so that he would forever be reminded of her love...or something like that.

ICE, I am so sorry to hear about your friends passing. I will keep you and her family in my prayers. Look forward to talking to her Son about her. Tell him stories about your friendship. That will help the both of you cope. One day you will have a wonderful reunion.

Sorry to be late on this.

My great-grandmother passed way just a little after midnight this morning. There were complications from intestinal surgery. She ended up in renal failure, and was too old and frail to handle the dialysis. She told the doctors that she has lived a good life, she has 4 great children, a ton of grandchildren, even MORE great grandchildren, and even a few great-great-grandchildren. If dialysis machines and all kinds of tubes and medicine is what she has to look forward to, she doesn't want it. So she signed a DNR, they put her in a medical induced coma to get through the worst of the pain, and she passed peacefully last night. She was 90 years old.

Rest in peace mom-mom.

I'm very sorry to hear that, X. My deepest sympathies.

Thanks SC. I actually returned back east to Maryland on Saturday for a vacation and to visit with my ailing grandfather, and as fate would have it, my great-grandmother passed away. It hurts that I didn't have the chance to say good-bye to her. It looks like I'll be attending a funeral while on vacation.

Sorry for your loss. RIP mom-mom.

X, we wish our loved ones could be with us forever, but, as she said, she had lived a good life and didn't want to deal with the tubes and machines. God rest her soul. She sounds like a very special woman, and you must have some wonderful memories of her. What a lovely legacy she has left.

I'm so sorry to hear this XDC, my condolences.

XDCX, You have my heartfelt sympathies. Treasure your memories of Mom-Mom.

Truly sorry bro, you have my support.

Hearts & prayers to you& yours, XDCX. May she be welcomed home by many open armed angels.

Sorry to hear of your loss, XDC dude.

I know it's not 2010 any more, but if you guys have any prayers left in you, please say one for my mom. Apparently she had a (hopefully mild) stroke yesterday and wasn't doing very well speaking or understanding, but my brother spoke to her and she seemed at least a little cohesive. They're still running tests and going through what they gotta go through. These things have a way of fixing themselves sometimes, so please... I'd appreciate it.

Have Faith, and keep your thoughts positive.
Prayer always seem to help.
and many prayers surely will.

and with this size group only good things can happen!

Geoff,

I am truly sorry. I am not unfamiliar with strokes, as both my brother and father were stricken. The fact that it was a mild stroke may be a good thing.

Your mom, you and your family will be in my prayers.

God bless you all! Keep us posted


TIS

Prayers & best wishes to your mom & family, JGeoff.

Both my mother and a good friend of ours suffered strokes many years ago and recovered. It all depends on what part of the brain is affected. Sounds like your mother got medical attention quick enough and will hopefully be allright after proper treatment and rehab therapy.

I'll be thinking of you and checking in for updates!!

Apple

Thanks guys, it means a lot. It just kills me she's in Florida; I'll likely go down in a few days. Luckily my Dr brother is going down tomorrow to check things out and be with my dad.

All the Maltas are in my prayers, Geoff, but especially your mom. She's a tough lady (as are all Brooklyn gals) and I'm praying she'll soon recover completely. In the meantime, get your ass down to Florida NOW and spend some time with her and your dad.

Let her know your consigliere is praying for her.

Geoff,

I will definitely keep your mom in my prayers, too.

I'm not unfamiliar with strokes, either. As has already been said, the fact that it appears to be a mild stroke is encouraging. And again, it will all depend on which side of the brain was affected. The first 72 hours are always the most critical. Being in the hospital and under constant monitoring is the best thing, at this point.

Signor V.

Hugs, kisses and prayers are headed your way, my dear friend. Please know that you and your mom are front and center in my thoughts. God bless and watch over all of you.

And get on a plane as soon as you physically can. xxooxx

(First of all: I don't want an indepth discussion and spoil this topic!)

I'm totally not religous myself and don't understand the use of prayers...

But...

To Geoff: I'm not going to pray, but I truly hope your mom will recover from the stroke!

Oh yeah I definitely hope Geoff's mom gets better. It's a terrible thing. Stay strong Geoff. As far as My ex's stepfather goes, me and him were very close once and he used to hate it when people prayed for him. I think him being an atheist had a lot to do with that.

Don Geoff,

I hope and pray that everything turns out ok. I will keep Mama and your family in my prayers. Please do not hesitate to contact me if you need anything at all. May GOD bless you all!

I prayed for your mom and you, my friend. I believe in prayers.

My dad had a stroke, in Florida, that left him unable get up off the floor for one night. But, after four days in hospital, he recovered. I never saw a sign of any debilitation after that.

Sorry to hear this, Geoff. I will definitely be praying for her and all of you.

Thanks again, guys. My brother's almost there so he'll be able to tell me better. I tried talking to her earlier, and heard her say my name in a sentence, but my dad said she was too tired to talk. Still waiting on the MRI (she had a hard time cooperating yesterday), but I think she's a little better today than yesterday. I'm packing right now, but probably won't go until Wednesday (unless I hear otherwise)...there's only one flight/day out of AC. Thanks again, you guys are great.

Glad to hear that there's an improvement of ANY kind, sweetie, large or small. Any step in the right direction is a good one. Hope you hear more good news soon!

Keep us posted my friend.

Geoff,

The news sounds encouraging. No doubt it will take a lot of time. Hang in there my friend. I will continue to think/pray for you and your family.


TIS

You have my thoughts and prayers as well, DG.

Just spoke w/ my mom on the phone and she's improved quite a bit, said my name, and was able to relay some information accurately. I can tell she's not getting everything just yet, but a marked improvement! Thanks, everyone! I'll be going down to the Sunshine State tomorrow (80°!)

JG, a little late catching this request. Sorry to hear of your mom's stroke. Big prayer going out. Sounds like she is springing back. The quicker the better. Have a good trip.

Wonderful news, Geoff!!

Give her a kiss for me and ask her if she ever dropped you on your head when you were a baby.

Great news Geoff!!! I'm glad you are able to go see her. Keep us posted.


TIS

Good luck with your trip and all the best for your Mom.

To God be the glory! Have a safe trip, Geoff!

Who says prayer doesn't work!
The best thing money can't buy.

Send back some warm weather!

Excellent news Geoff. Sounds as though she's headed in the right direction!

Now you get your ass down there and give Mama Malta a big hug from all of us here on the GangsterBB!

Your mom is in my prayers, Geoff. I'm glad you're heading to Fla. Best of luck to your family.

Just talked to my mom, after my brother said she's practically back to normal! Wow, that was awesome! Gotta run, but thanks again everyone!!

Boy, that's wonderful! Glad to hear it Geoff!



TIS

Geoff, I am so glad to hear the encouraging news - as is everyone else.

I'm sure your mom will feel even better when she sees you.

Signor V.

Do you have any further positive news yet?

Sorry, just got home tonight. Had very limited access so didn't even bother trying -- but my mom's 99.999% back after a few days! Guess it was kinda minor - but she really couldn't speak or understand much of anything the first 3 days, but then she bounced back and I left FL a week later confidently.

Glad to hear the good news Geoff.

Great news Geoff! Sounds like she's well on the road to recovery. Glad to hear it.



TIS

Glad to hear the good news, Geoff!



Signor V.

That's the news we wanted to hear!

Geoff, that's wonderful news! Power of prayer!

I'm glad to hear the great news, JG. I absolutely believe in the power of prayer, and I'm sure it was the love for her sons and family that gave her the strength to hang in there. Very heartwarming stuff!

Thanks, guys -- I/we've been pretty lucky so far I think

My grandmother just went into full cardiac arrest. The doctors don't think she's going to live...

X, I'm very sorry to hear that. I am sending positive vibes her way.

Good luck!

I feel so horrible for you. You certainly have my prayers and thoughts. God bless her.

Same here. I will definitely keep her in my prayers and hope for good news in this difficult time.

Signor V.

It happened so suddenly. My mom called and told me that she and my grandfather were at the store, and she just collapsed into unconsciousness. The EMTs arrived shortly thereafter and declared she was in full cardiac arrest and rushed her to the hospital. I just spoke to her on the phone yesterday...

I haven't heard anything from my family since the initial news. I hate that there's nothing I can do...

X,

I'm so sorry to hear about your grandmother. I am late to this news and hopefully by now you have some kind of update??? I do pray she recovers fully.

I know the feeling of helplessness is awful but she is in good hands and where she should be. Prayers are always a plus.


TIS

I hope everything works out, X -- that's very scary! God bless...

The prognosis isn't good, I'm afraid.

She was in Walmart with my grandfather when she collapsed. Apparently when she fell, she struck the back of her head on the floor and fractured her skull. Luckily there was a nurse on scene, and she administered CPR and mouth-to-mouth, but she couldn't get her to respond. The EMTS arrived around 5 minutes later and were able to get her heart beating after using a defibrilator, but that took another 5 minutes.

The doctors are concerned that if she does pull through, she may have brain damage due to the lack of blood and oxygen flowing to her brain, not to mention the head injury.

Thanks for the well-wishes, guys. I feel like a hypocrite posting in this thread, considering my beliefs. I just don't know what else to do...

X,

This is a difficult and scary time for you and we ALL understand. I know that I am not the only one praying for her and your grandfather and family during this trying time.




TIS

She isn't going to make it. The doctors say her heart is just too damaged, and there's nothing they can do.

The family is gathering at the hospital right now, where the doctor is going to take her off of life support.

And I can't be there.

I'm really, really sorry to hear it, X.

I am so sorry to hear that. I know it is hard to be far away, but don't hesitate to call your family and your grandmother. You can still be close to them, and talk to them. Sometimes we just need someone that we can cry with or sigh with or just be there, even if it's on the phone. God bless!



TIS

You can be there in heart, and from what I know about you and how you are with family, I guarantee you already are there in heart. Parental bonds are amazing and I couldn't explain how but I'd bet dollars to doughnuts that your grandmother KNOWS you are there.

I am so very sorry to read this news. Don't know what more I can say, except what's already been said, and the fact that you have friends here to talk to if and when you need to.

Signor V.

X, So sorry, sweetie. Prayers and hugs are being sent your way.

X, so sorry. Prayers and thoughts from me.

So sorry, X.

**UPDATE**

My grandfather refused to have them pull the plug until he felt they exhausted every option they had. So as of my last update, the doctors conducted a procedure called a percutaneous coronary intervention (PCI), where they basically insert a balloon into an artery in her arm to assist the heart in pumping the blood it needs to pump to operate correctly and efficiently.

I just got off the phone with my sister a few moments ago. She said my grandmother woke up! The doctor asked her a simple series of yes and no questions, and she was able to nod yes or no accordingly! I'm not sure how I feel about miracles...but if there were EVER a case for one, this may be it.

She isn't out of the woods yet, and the doctors aren't overly optimistic...but as of right now...SHE IS ALIVE!

Thanks for all the prayers and well wishes guys!

Awesome!!! I hope you're able to visit soon, too. And I hope your grandfather helps others to be less itchy to pull the plug too soon when they don't really know/believe...

Sounds like a turn for the better X. My continued prayers for her and your family.


TIS

Well unless there is some sort of dramatic setback for my grandmother, it looks like she's gonna be absolutely fine, with all of her mental faculties intact!

Thanks again to everyone for the prayers and well-wishes. I may not be a religious person, but my grandmother is, and I know her belief in God comforts her. Your prayers mean a lot to her, so thanks!

I am so glad to hear this great news X.


TIS

Nice - it's good to hear some good news like this

Wonderful news, X.

I'm happy for your grandmother, and I'm happy for you!

I'll echo what SC just said - truly amazing and heartwarming news. An absolute blessing!

Signor V.

WOOHOO!!! So happy to hear the good news!

X,

I'm sorry I'm not on the BB that much anymore but I wanted to tell you how happy I am of your Grandmother's progress. She has an angel watching over her. I'll keep her and you and your family in my prayers.

Though decision for your grandfather, but in the end it may look like the only correct one (despite the fact your grandfather isn't a doctor ). Really happy for your family.

Glad to hear your good news, I'm just now viewing this XDCX. Still, my prayers are with you and your family.

Thanks for all the prayers and well-wishes concerning my grandmother. She has recovered better than anyone thought she would, and doesn't look like she's going anywhere for a very long time.

In much sadder news, my grandfather passed away yesterday. I'm sure some of you remember that a little over a year ago I mentioned that my grandfather had been diagnosed with prostate cancer that had spread to his bones. He wasn't supposed to live past Thanksgiving 2010. He lived through Thanksgiving 2011, and quietly passed away the next day, surrounded by family.

I can't even begin to express how saddened I am by his loss. He was a truly great man, and someone whom I'd like to pattern myself after. He had a tough, no-nonsense demeanor on the outside, but once you got to know him, he was a friend for life, and the best grandfather I could ever ask for. As sad as I am, I feel a sense of relief knowing that he is finally at peace, and pain free. Even still, I miss him terribly, and selfishly, I wish I could have him back.

Goodbye Pop-Pop, I love you.

X great news about your grandmother. You never know. Sometimes things seem to be bleak and turn out ok. She sounds like quite a fighter.

Yet, I am so sorry about your grandfather. Even if it was expected, it's still painful. Cling to all the wonderful memories and perhaps take comfort that he is no longer in pain.

Thoughts/prayers are with you and your family.


TIS

X. I am so sorry to hear the news about your grandfather. It's so hard to say good-bye, isn't it? Please know that I am sending you best wishes.

Glad to hear about your grandmother, though.

I'm sorry about your grandfather. But you have the comfort of having had him, and his wonderful impact on your life. Surely your memory of him--and the others he touched--will keep him alive in your feelings.

Sorry to hear about your grandfather, X... but great to hear about your grandmother! Enjoy as much as you can while you can, and it sounds like you have -- God bless!

My sympathies, X. Hang in there.

Sorry to hear that XD. You and your Grandfather are in my thoughts

Thanks everybody, your thoughts and well-wishes mean a lot to me and my family.

The mourning process of losing someone you love is one of the worst feelings ever, but I do know it gets better. Death is a part of life, and the most important thing you can take from it is to cherish the time you have with those you love, and make sure they know how much they mean to you. I hope my grandfather knew how much I love him. I think he did.

Mignon started this thread. And thank you for this, so I would like to continue this.

Yes, ole Frosty gets, going with the ole pie hole. I have stated that before.

But think that it is about time that we Pray for this COUNTRY, AND WISDOM to help us in who we VOTE for in all parts of govt., also pray for those who have went through fires, this holiday season, the ones who have lost their homes and are out with kids. The kids that are missing, abused. ETC. and so on. Be thankful for the things we have, and the miltary that has made it home.

I do pray in the morning, and am going to start in the evening.

This is one thread that needs to be here all the time !!! Because sooner or later , more than likely sooner may need it.