Wasn't Coppola's mother an extra in the wedding sequence in Part I as well? Or was it is grandmother? She's in the background during part of the "that's my family Kay. It's not me" part. His son Gio (who has since died I think) helped him and Talia plot out the Carlo beating scene.
I think it's inevitable, and very sweet, that he would include his family in a project like the Godfather trilogy, being as it was centred around a huge italian american family. Coppola was elated that his Dad got an Oscar because of it.
It does annoy me slightly that Talia Shire got the part of Connie because I have to say some of her acting in Part I is painful. She seems to have one level of emotion: hysteria. Coppola always makes this big thing about how reluctant he was to have to choose her.. blah blah.. but she was the best he found.. blah blah... Wait - he auditioned practically every actress on the face of the earth and his sister just happened to be the best? Uh, right.
But in Part II she was much better so I can't really complain. Part III - yeah I kind of expected her to aquire a monacle and start rubbing her hands together with an evil laugh. But hey, that fits the overall tone of the movie...
As for Sofia though... don't get me started. Partly what I hate so much about the Godfather III is that it's so obviously about Coppola and where he was at as he made the film. He thinks he's Michael. And to cast his daughter as Mike's daughter... Have some dignity man!
He could have got away with it if she was any good but she was vomitricious.
Yes, if you saw her in the street behaving like that, you'd take her for a 19 year old girl. But that just doesn't cut it, that wasn't the requirement of the part. She had lines to deliver which were supposed to mean things, not just be said (rather awkwardly, with much flicking of the hair and gangly movements) Her eye contact and flat tone of voice are distractingly bad (If I was Andy Garcia I would have had to take her aside and ask her to STOP staring cross-eyed at my mouth through every scene) At the party when she presents the cheque, she's so self conscious I half expect her to look directly at the camera as she passes it, or call "like this Dad?" during the middle of the scene. And kudos to Garcia for managing that cooking scene... He has to do everything, she looks like a silly nine year old when he kisses her.
Worst of all, Mary was intended to be the ultimate part of the Godfather's tragedy. Where Mike's past comes back to haunt him. The most terrible, ironic of losses. Worse than Fredo.
Yes, the opera sequence is wonderful. Yes, Al's silent scream should go down in history. But it is Michael's suffering that I mourn in that final scene on the steps, not Mary's death. I don't care about Mary, I spend the whole ending wondering why anyone actually cared about her in the first place. (Heartless, moi?)
I shouldn't be so hard on Sofia, it wasn't her fault. She should have been protected from making such a dog's dinner of herself by her father, who after working with Brando, Pacino and De Niro, had no excuse for not knowing the difference between the art of acting and the skill of remembering lines. Bad Francis! Bad!
Sorry for the essay but it just distresses me thinking what could have been if they'd only waited for Winona Ryder to recover - or even given Christina Ricci a pair of high heeled shoes...