Originally posted by Don Chater:
A) When you take a girl out for the first time, or at the beginning, you want to start slow. Lots of girls like to go out with friends and you, that way she doesn't feel pressure by being alone with you. By doing this she gets to see you and how you communicate with your friends and how you have fun outside school or however you know her.
B) When you take her out, and you know each other well enough, ask her out for lunch/dinner. Ask if she is in the mood for something..maybe pizza, pasta, steak, etc -- whatever it may be. Then, choose a place that you know serves the above food quite well.
C) Conversation: if it's quiet, you're screwed. Find out what you have in common with her. Sports? Movies? Music - a certain band is on tour or something? School and how you hate this or that subject and its teacher? Virtually, anything can be talked about. Once you break the ice, it's easy flowing from there. Don't have quite moments, too many are bad.
D) Pay for the date. Don't let her pay no matter what.
E) Don't buy her gifts. NO gifts. Not until you're actually together. Otherwise, it's worthless and is stupid because women like challenges, if you're going to call her and buy her whatever she pleases, she has you in her pocket, thus there is no challenge and she is not interested.
F) When you wish to speak to her, it's by phone or up front. You can chat on MSN/ICQ/AIM if you want, but about light subjects like school, or how was your day, or what you up to tomorrow. Anything more, do over the phone. E-Mails suck. Don't bother. Call the damn girl. Women hate the quote on quote "MSN Relationships" because it shows you're not confident enough to talk to her up front. Women like confidence. Don't hide behind the screen.
G) When you call her and see her, don't do it every day or even 2nd or 3rd day for that matter. You are yet to become a couple and until that happens, calling her will seem desperate and women don't like men to be desperate -- it's immature and just plain old stupid.
H) After you guys go out, whether it be with friends or to the movies or go kart racing or a restaurant -- whatever it may be -- call her about 4 days after and talk about it. See if she had fun, tell her you'de like to do it again sometime in the next week or so. (Whenever is most conveninent.)
I've typed this up in 1 minute and 23 seconds. This is all that could come to the top of my head as of now. I can give ya some pointers later. I'm in a rush so my points may not all make sense. I'll be back on later this week to post more in depth help if needbe.
Remember, bring her to you. Not vice versa.
Don Charter,
That was not a first date, we alredy had a history that lasted more than four years.
She wanted to take pizza, actually there is were we meet.
Pay for tha date??!! I always, always, payed for tha everything! My pocket has always, and remains, open for her!
Well, she is kind of mad or angry with me, beacause of the past... So its kinda of difficult.
The gifts? Well, Its that I am a source of a giver... A wiseguy-couple, that wath they say, in other words.
Yes, but she doesnt wanna talk to me... In person, she runs away; In messeger she just stay quiet and replys "Yes" "No" "Ja ja ja" "Really", stuff like that.
MSN Relationships, that aint me!
Man, we where alredy a couple... I just cant stand to see her eating up all her anger towards me without giving me the chance to explain how things really where.
On a related subject: School?! Wath makes you think she or my are on school? Yes, it sounds cursi and stupid... but thats love! Even for old foxes like me!