Posted By: XDCX
Are today's men comfortable in their sexuality? - 05/19/05 03:07 PM
I've noticed, both on this board, and in my everyday life, that a lot of men who claim to be straight as an arrow, don't seem to be at all comfortable in their sexuality. For instance, in my every day life, I hear girls all the time exclaim how this other girl is pretty, how young girls ALWAYS wanna look like their role model (i.e Britney Spears, for lack of a better choice at the moment).
Girls can pick an individual and wanna be like them. Boys, on the other hand, pick an occupation.
Girl: I WANNA BE LIKE BRITNEY SPEARS, MOMMY!
Boy: I WANNA BE A FIREMAN!
See what I'm getting at?
It seems to me that woman are a whole lot more comfortable in their sexuality than men. And here's where it involves the BB:
In Fame's "Profile Thread", he left a choice open for Hottest Woman Alive, and Hottest Man. Going throught he majority of the posts, most (if not all) of the guys, either put " " or nothing at all, or something suggesting "they don't swing that way." However, all the ladies (or most of em) weren't ashamed to put a name of a woman down in the "Hottest Female Alive" choice.
Me, I'm completely comfortable in my sexuality. For my choice of hottest male, I put Johnny Depp. There's not a gay bone in my body, but I'm not ashamed to say that Johnny Depp is an attractive man.
I've also surveyed some guys (including my brother), but beings that I'm majoring in psychology, I know how to twist things. For instance, the first thing I'll ask:
Q: Given the choice, if you could look like any famous man in the world, what females would consider the hottest man alive, who would you choose?
Most would give an answer such as Johnny Depp, Leo DiCaprio, or someone along those lines. Then I turn it around and ask "So you think he's attractive, no?" And they exclaim "HELL NAH MAN, I AIN'T GAY!"
Hence, my point.
It is my opinion that most guys aren't comfortable in their sexuality. Whaddya yall think?
Girls can pick an individual and wanna be like them. Boys, on the other hand, pick an occupation.
Girl: I WANNA BE LIKE BRITNEY SPEARS, MOMMY!
Boy: I WANNA BE A FIREMAN!
See what I'm getting at?
It seems to me that woman are a whole lot more comfortable in their sexuality than men. And here's where it involves the BB:
In Fame's "Profile Thread", he left a choice open for Hottest Woman Alive, and Hottest Man. Going throught he majority of the posts, most (if not all) of the guys, either put " " or nothing at all, or something suggesting "they don't swing that way." However, all the ladies (or most of em) weren't ashamed to put a name of a woman down in the "Hottest Female Alive" choice.
Me, I'm completely comfortable in my sexuality. For my choice of hottest male, I put Johnny Depp. There's not a gay bone in my body, but I'm not ashamed to say that Johnny Depp is an attractive man.
I've also surveyed some guys (including my brother), but beings that I'm majoring in psychology, I know how to twist things. For instance, the first thing I'll ask:
Q: Given the choice, if you could look like any famous man in the world, what females would consider the hottest man alive, who would you choose?
Most would give an answer such as Johnny Depp, Leo DiCaprio, or someone along those lines. Then I turn it around and ask "So you think he's attractive, no?" And they exclaim "HELL NAH MAN, I AIN'T GAY!"
Hence, my point.
It is my opinion that most guys aren't comfortable in their sexuality. Whaddya yall think?