Posted By: Fame
Happiness - 12/16/11 12:14 AM
Do you think it's possible to live a happy life all by yourself? I mean no spouse and no kids.
When you're 20 then you're "single and happy". You want to party, you don't want to settle down, coming home to an empty apartment is not an issue. But what happens when you're 30 or 40 and you're still coming home to an empty house, can you still be happy then?
Do you think single adults can be just as happy as family guys?
I think most people will say, for example, that Oprah Winfrey is having a dream life. But she's not a mother. She chose career. And I'm asking, is she less happy than most mothers out there?
I know that there are many people who are married and unhappy, but generally speaking I'm just asking if true happiness in life depends on having a family above anything else.
I'm starting this thread now because I just came back from a meeting with friends, and one of them, a 35 year old woman, is worried that she'll never be happy in life because no man will ever want her ("I know I have an ugly face, nothing will ever change that") and she says she really wants to have children, but not without a father. She said she tried the internet as well, and as soon as the guys see her pic they lose their interest. She says it's hopeless...we tried to cheer her up, but to no avail. She just turned 35 so that's why she's very upset right now (more than usual)
When you're 20 then you're "single and happy". You want to party, you don't want to settle down, coming home to an empty apartment is not an issue. But what happens when you're 30 or 40 and you're still coming home to an empty house, can you still be happy then?
Do you think single adults can be just as happy as family guys?
I think most people will say, for example, that Oprah Winfrey is having a dream life. But she's not a mother. She chose career. And I'm asking, is she less happy than most mothers out there?
I know that there are many people who are married and unhappy, but generally speaking I'm just asking if true happiness in life depends on having a family above anything else.
I'm starting this thread now because I just came back from a meeting with friends, and one of them, a 35 year old woman, is worried that she'll never be happy in life because no man will ever want her ("I know I have an ugly face, nothing will ever change that") and she says she really wants to have children, but not without a father. She said she tried the internet as well, and as soon as the guys see her pic they lose their interest. She says it's hopeless...we tried to cheer her up, but to no avail. She just turned 35 so that's why she's very upset right now (more than usual)